Books As First Dates Tag

Ahhhhhhh, first dates. I think we can all agree that first dates can be exciting but also super awkward. I mean, there’s so much pressure! And spoiler alert: first dates are NEVER as perfect as they appear in the movies.

 I can still remember mine – I was fourteen and the new guy I’d been crushing on invited me to the theater. Sounds pretty romantic right? Well, let me tell you – it wasn’t all smooth sailings! First, our seats were mixed up and we didn’t get to sit together [thankfully he pulled some strings]. Then, during intermission, I managed to thoroughly embarrass myself. Basically, the company had set out a small buffet and as I reached down my handbag slid off my arm and landed in a plate of fudge brownies, splattering me with chocolate. *Face palm*.

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But, despite all the awkwardness, my date was a perfect gentlemen and raced off to find some napkins, helping me clean off. And you know what? We ended up having a really great time, the fudge incident becoming an inside joke between us.

Which brings me to today’s post: the Books As First Dates Tag!

Before I get into the questions, I have to thank my good friend Emma from A Few Chapter To Love for nominating me. Emma [my eczema sister and fellow Twihard] has just recently returned from hiatus with a beautiful new aesthetic. Be sure to check her out! Thank you for the tag, Em – I’m sending you a big hug! 💙

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First and last: a book / series you’ve read and enjoyed but can’t bring yourself to read again


Life and Death is basically a gender-bent retelling of Twilight reimagined for it’s tenth anniversary. This time, it’s Beaufort Swan who moves to the gloomy little town of Forks, Washington. I have a lot of mixed feelings about this one. Was it necessary? Hell no – Bella definitely lived the best possible version of this story. And okay, sure it was interesting to play around with what might have been but I can’t see myself re-reading Life and Death anytime soon.

With a friend of mine: a book / series someone recommended to you that turned out to be different from what you had expected


I was probably the last human alive to read Shelby Mahurin’s debut novel. Let’s just say, I’m not one for the hype train and witches aren’t my thing. But when Emma raved about it during her 2020 OWLs readathon I finally caved. This book was freaking phenomenal – dark and complex with heavy religious overtones. An enemies-turned-lovers romance between a witch and a witch hunter, Serpent and Dove explores religion, feminism and tolerance.

Double date: a book whose sequel you ‘immediately’ had to read


I read A Court of Mist and Fury as soon as it released. And I regretted that decision profusely. A Court of Mist and Fury DESTROYED me. I remember sitting there and feeling the urge to lob my paperback across the room. I mean, that freaking CLIFFHANGER! How was I ever going to survive the wait? [Still can’t believe I did]. At the time, I probably would have given my left leg for an early draft of A Court of Wings and Ruin.

Let’s go to the movies: a book series that should be adapted to screen

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Okay, so I’ve finally decided to pick up the Lunar Chronicles and all I’ve been able to think about is how absurd it is that this series hasn’t been picked up by Hollywood yet. I mean, the Lunar Chronicles could be the next Star Wars! This series takes our favorite fairy tales but adds a futuristic, science fiction twist. The stakes are high, the action full-throttle and the imagery seriously vivid. Like, can someone please just make this happen already???

Dreamy Stargazing: a book that made you go ‘ahhhh’ and ‘ohhhh’

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The Night Circus is basically an enchanting feast for the senses. Beautifully complex and interwoven, Erin Morgenstern’s debut is the very definition of dreamy, reminiscent of some half-forgotten dream. The plot centers around Le Cirque des Rêves, a magical travelling circus that opens at nightfall. It’s a seductive labyrinth of illusion and imagination – the perfect stage for a duel between two star-crossed magicians.

Fun at the Fair: a book full of colours

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Here’s the thing about me: I love truly immersive settings with bright and pliable aesthetics. You know, books that capture a specific vibe or feeling. One such book is Nicola Yoon’s Everything, Everything. This book feels like a riot of color as our protagonist, Maddie experiences the world for the very first time [it’s a long story]. Everything, Everything just oozes that lush tropical aesthetic with the perfect added amount of swoon.

Amusement park adventure: a book that was a rollercoaster


Another series I’ve just recently re-read, the Starbound Trilogy is a sweeping space opera about love, hope and survival against all odds. While the first two installments were more of a slow burn, Their Fractured Light steamed ahead at full throttle. Right from the very first chapter we were thrust into a deadly cat-and-mouse game of hit and run and the plot never let up.

Picnic with cherries: a book whose food descriptions made you feel all *heart eyes*


I feel as though To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before is the quintessential book for yummy treats and a classic vintage aesthetic. Our protagonist Lara Jean loves to cook and her narrative is full of homemade sweets and baking. Jenny Han always has her making something. Cupcakes, muffins, Christmas cookies – you name it. You can practically smell the freshly baked cookies wafting from the pages.

Trip to the museum: a book that taught you valuable stuff


Okay, I can feel you all rolling your eyes and groaning in unison – I know I always scream about The Sun Is Also a Star but this book honestly changed my perception of EVERYTHING. The Sun Is Also a Star is a deeply philosophical book about fate, grounded in scientific fact. Nicola Yoon explores the butterfly effect, showing us that our actions play a bigger role in the gathered consciousness of the universe.

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Okay, you’ve heard about my awkward first date experience – now I want to hear from YOU. Let me know in the comments below your most hilarious first date [or any date for that matter] escapade.


23 thoughts on “Books As First Dates Tag

  1. Okay first of all( this is totally random) but I just realized for the last few weeks we have published our posts at practically the same time which is kinda of funny but, has nothing to do with this so sorry 😂

    Lunar Chronicles should one hundred percent be turned into movies and can I note how addictive this series is! My friend got me hooked and now I just can’t stop reading them😂 Hmm, I love Everything Everything but every time I think of that book, I think of Maddie’s mother. I understand grief can be terrible but I’m still trying to grasp what she did! Life and Death was unnecessary and not planning on re- reading anytime soon lol.
    Oof, I’m sorry about your first date but it’s great that you can laugh about it now. I have never been on a date but I imagine that they don’t go as perfectly planned out as they do in film and novels because nothing ever seems too😂 Hahah, thanks for sharing that story!
    Anyways love this tag and omg, tysm for the tag❤️💖 Haha you’ve talked about so many great books that I don’t even know what I’ll mention!

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    • Haha you know, I was noticing that too! Great minds post on similar schedules! 😉

      Okay, so first of all, I’m so sorry it’s taken me so long to reply to your comments! I’m back from hiatus and I promise I’m getting around to replying to all your comments and catching up on all your posts I missed.

      Second, I’ve just finished reading the Lunar Chronicles and I’m SO mad it took me so long – they are AMAZING! Perfect for a hard-core Disney fan like me! Who knew that a science fiction twist was exactly what these classic tales needed? I can definitely see a re-read in the future!

      And as far as first dates, I’m sure you’ll end up with a cute and funny first date antidote too! It’s true they never go as planned but I think that’s what makes them so fun and charming. You look back and laugh! 💙💙💙


  2. This looks like so much fun, thanks for tagging me! I will definitely be doing this, although it might take me a while 😅🤗 And I agree with so many of your choices! I’m going to have a really hard time coming up with a book as dreamy as The Night Circus, for example…

    As to my most hilarious dating experience – it makes your fudge incident seem even more romantic in comparison 😂 This guy I had barely ever spoken to asked me out, and even though I wasn’t really interested in him, I thought I’d at least give him a chance and get to know him better. However, as soon as the date came around, he started interrogating me: what grades did I have in school, what scholarships did I have, how much work did I invest into uni in my free time, and didn’t I think people just didn’t take academia seriously enough anymore? I felt like I was at a prestigious job interview, much less on a date 😅🙈 I later learned from a mutual acquaintance that he had only asked me out because he’d found out I was in the same scholarship program as he was, which might make me “intellectually compatible”… Needless to say, it was extremely awkward and we left it at that one date 😅😂 My friends still love bringing it up to this day…

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    • Ahhhhh, I’m so ashamed it’s taken me so long to get to your comment! *Hangs head in shame*. And don’t stress – I’m as slow as a glacier when it comes to book tags! But the Night Circus is pretty hard to top haha!

      And oh man – when a guy starts interrogating me I’m out of there! Haha that’s never a good sign! And such specific questions too??? Like what a weirdo! Who asks someone about scholarships on the first date??? 🙈🙈🙈 Hahaha I think that definitely tops my fudge incident! But I guess we have funny stories to bring up during late night drink ups with friends? LOL!

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  3. I’m so glad I didn’t read the ACOTAR trilogy until all 3 books were out haha and was able to read ACOMAF and ACOWAR back to back idk how you survived that wait that’s an accomplishment. The Lunar Chronicles absolutely needs to be adapted idk why Hollywood hasn’t jumped on this yet?? just saying the possibilities?? I mean they’re content to pump out Star Wars movies every year so like… can we just add princesses to space pls???? And ahh all the food in To All The Boys was so mouth watering I just need to be friends with Lara Jean irl and eat all her baked goods pLEASE let me eat those chocolate chip cookies she spent so long perfecting!!! loved this post ❤

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    • I mean, not to brag but yes. Yes it was an accomplishment. 😂😂😂 [Jokes aside, I kind of wish I was smarted and waited to read them back-to-back too].

      Right??? Like hold up with the mediocre Star Wars films [lol – not that I’ve ever seen any???] and let’s make this happen! Give us some Oscar winning adaptions with amazing songs and special effects! [I’m thinking we should make this happen – wanna write a script??? 😉 ]

      Thank you so much for reading Kay! 💙💙💙


  4. Thank you for doing this one, Alexandra!
    I loved reading all your answers, and am so happy that you loved SaD too! I guess that’s my paying-it-forward for House of Salt and Sorrows!

    Awkward First Date Story : I actually don’t have one? I mean, me and my bf started as friends first and we technically haven’t been on a ‘date’ date but we hang out a lot.

    Amazing post!
    xx Emma

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    • Right? I feel like we’ve got VERY similar tastes in movies and books so if you talk it up, you can bet I’ll be adding it to my cart! 😉

      And you know what? You’re so lucky you don’t have an awkward first date story! [yet lol!]. Not many people can claim that their first date was perfect. But considering that your boyfriend started out as your best friends I’m sure you have nothing to worry about.

      Much love! 💙💙💙

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    • Awwww thank you – I’ve never thought of myself as that awkward but endearing protagonist before. Usually I’m too busy thinking “WTF – get it together, Alexandra!”. 😂😂😂 But honestly, I think I was more embarrassed by the fact that I completely ruined the fudge for all the other patrons! I definitely got some dirty looks!

      Can’t wait to read your post! 💙💙💙

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    • Me too! Some of those fan made trailers really are something else! [But honestly though, can we make this happen? I need a movie, stat!] 😉

      Thank you so much for stopping by and I’m so sorry I took so long to reply!
      Much love, Alexandra 💙

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  5. I definitely agree with The Lunar Chronicles. I think it would do wonderfully on screen and I would love to see it. This tag looks like so much fun, thanks for tagging me!

    Your first date story does sound embarrassing but at least everything worked out alright! I’ve never actually been on a date but just knowing who I am as a person, I’m sure when it finally happens, I’ll be awkward and embarrassing

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    • You know what? I know I talked about how awkward my first date was but honestly, there’s beauty in a little awkwardness. Especially on the first date! And the nerves are the best part! I’m sure when you do have your first date it will be awkward too – but in the BEST way! 😉

      Also, everyone in the comments has agreed with the Lunar Chronicles needing a film series – Hollywood? Are you taking notes??? 💙

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  6. *sigh* I’m 17 years old and I still haven’t had my first date yet. Probably because I have such unrealistic standards (I have all of the ACOMAF men to thank for that… omg that book ruined me too!) And also because all of the boys at my school are assholes. 😭 It’s fine, though, I’m perfectly happy with my 10000 fictional boyfriends! ❤ But in all seriousness, I LOVE this post! Their Fractured Light was such an awesome finale to the Starbound series, and Serpent and Dove was a phenomenal debut novel! Can't wait to read Blood and Honey and The Other Side of the Sky with you!!! Fabulous post, Alexandra!

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    • Don’t worry – it will happen. And I’m sure it will be all the more sweeter for waiting! And COVID19 is the perfect excuse. Come Christmas when my obnoxious family comes at me again with “Alexandra? You’re STILL single??? Why haven’t you found a boyfriend yet???” you can just BET I’ll be whipping that excuse card out! 😉 😂

      Also, trust me – 10000 fictional boyfriends are WAY better than 1 real one. You don’t have to train them! [Lol just kidding but not really].

      Thank you so much for your comment! Sorry I’ve been lazy and it’s taken me so long to reply! [I can’t wait to catch up on all your new posts I’ve missed!]. 💙💙💙


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